I'm just really hoping that the advice is not your soon to be wife..I wish you a lifetime of happiness..
awhile back I was having a rough time, dealing with issues and cancer and kids, having trouble navigating financial issues with disability..etc so I did what we all are supposed to do, since I don't have any close buddies to talk to I got a counselor .. I had a prior one awhile back and she had really helped me navigate disability but then 7 years on I was still only getting part of the money and I just couldn't get past the wall with SS..
so to make it short.. went to the councilor and after several visits he came up with a plan.. get rid of everything I love.. my guns, and worse yet my family and my dog..
I got to feeling even worse, out of desperation I contacted my congressman and he got me my my SSI

now I was on a roll so I did the next logical thing, got rid of the councilor.. and WOW it was much better.. still had a lot of issues with cancer and my kids.. adult kids.. well I finally found a better counselor and I think she has helped me make peace with life..
life comes and goes, I remember once when I was young I had to sell most of my gun collection to make it through a hard winter, with 2 young kids and I kept all my powder guns.. but there's a handful of Airguns that I had that are extremely rare now, not replaceable, wish I could have kept a few.. move on to 8 years ago and I went through a divorce and had to sell half of the powder guns.. kept all that were very important to me.. since then I got back into airguns, I love to shoot and the quiet..
life comes and goes, just make sure you are happy with what you do and enjoy life..
definitely think about the council you got, whomever it was, and will you come to regret it later.. honestly the best thing I did with a counselor was to get rid of the bad one.. I mentioned it to my wife this year, I had such a hard time with the council that I didn't tell anyone, told my wife a couple months ago what he said and she agreed that best thing was to dump that councilor right away.
I wish you well and a lifetime of happiness..
Mark