What ever the reason i would first take a personal conversation to see if there is a solution to be found, but i will admit i find most people to be less solution oriented than i am.
I do take pride in saying compromise is not at all something i like to do, but i have to be real and admit i do those all the time.
But of course there is also degrees of compromise, for instance on the subject of voting i have not done that in +30 years, but it look like i might actually be able to do that come next election ( new sort of relevant party emerged )
Another funny thing i have noticed, i can compliment a woman / girl in many languages, but it seem that these days a compliment is something that violate girls / women,,,,, not all but far too many i feel.
So here in Denmark for instance to be able to do my thing, i do it in French / Spanish / Italian / Japanese and so on as people here are most often clueless outside of the English and German taught in school.
So if i hold the door for a girl / woman i might say Apre vous madmoicelle ( i hope i spelled that right CUZ i do not write French as that language too is entirely self taught ) and then the girl most often look at me as if i just fell out of a tree.
Also only learned to write in English with me getting online, CUZ i did not attend very many English classes in school either.
I do take pride in saying compromise is not at all something i like to do, but i have to be real and admit i do those all the time.
But of course there is also degrees of compromise, for instance on the subject of voting i have not done that in +30 years, but it look like i might actually be able to do that come next election ( new sort of relevant party emerged )
Another funny thing i have noticed, i can compliment a woman / girl in many languages, but it seem that these days a compliment is something that violate girls / women,,,,, not all but far too many i feel.
So here in Denmark for instance to be able to do my thing, i do it in French / Spanish / Italian / Japanese and so on as people here are most often clueless outside of the English and German taught in school.
So if i hold the door for a girl / woman i might say Apre vous madmoicelle ( i hope i spelled that right CUZ i do not write French as that language too is entirely self taught ) and then the girl most often look at me as if i just fell out of a tree.
Also only learned to write in English with me getting online, CUZ i did not attend very many English classes in school either.
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