Guys ,
This is a long one but bear with me to the end . I’m new and going to make mistakes , I’m not familiar with most of the workings of this forem , but I can tell you , I did read the rules to follow when buying or selling in the classifieds . Man what a brutal place . I have never felt so disrespected . I applied all the rules we all should be applying when it comes to buying and selling and guess what? 5 out of 5 times I have been rejected when I asked them to text or call , send me a text with the agreement spelled out and payment method and send me a picture or the product your selling and let’s swap pictures of our DL . All 5 , the deals were going great until I applied these principles , then it all went down hill ! One , just ignored me , one said he wasn’t going to sell it , and may keep it , then took the add down remedially , one guy said he wasn’t comfortable switching pictures of DL and lastly one guy lectured me about the rules do not apply to him because he has been on here for 5 years , this guy belittled me , called me names and was just plane a little b!/@h . I made it clear on the feedback section . Its not the way you treat new people to this site , plain and simple , especially since I’m the buyer and must protect my cash against the possibility his product isn’t as advertised . His PP will have my money , all of it , before he sends , if it’s not what I expected I need protections .
so my question is if you guys are still with me , what are the rules for if many long time members do not feel the necessity to follow them, and why isn’t these people feel the need to assist new people and not condemn ? I really want to use all of the forums , especially the classifieds since I’m just beginning but now feel like it’s not for me !
This is a long one but bear with me to the end . I’m new and going to make mistakes , I’m not familiar with most of the workings of this forem , but I can tell you , I did read the rules to follow when buying or selling in the classifieds . Man what a brutal place . I have never felt so disrespected . I applied all the rules we all should be applying when it comes to buying and selling and guess what? 5 out of 5 times I have been rejected when I asked them to text or call , send me a text with the agreement spelled out and payment method and send me a picture or the product your selling and let’s swap pictures of our DL . All 5 , the deals were going great until I applied these principles , then it all went down hill ! One , just ignored me , one said he wasn’t going to sell it , and may keep it , then took the add down remedially , one guy said he wasn’t comfortable switching pictures of DL and lastly one guy lectured me about the rules do not apply to him because he has been on here for 5 years , this guy belittled me , called me names and was just plane a little b!/@h . I made it clear on the feedback section . Its not the way you treat new people to this site , plain and simple , especially since I’m the buyer and must protect my cash against the possibility his product isn’t as advertised . His PP will have my money , all of it , before he sends , if it’s not what I expected I need protections .
so my question is if you guys are still with me , what are the rules for if many long time members do not feel the necessity to follow them, and why isn’t these people feel the need to assist new people and not condemn ? I really want to use all of the forums , especially the classifieds since I’m just beginning but now feel like it’s not for me !