@stefanjan, good explanation. One thing I would change though is how long you run it when you start it up. I recommend only running it for a minute, no more than two unloaded, just to get things a little warmed up. The reason for that is when you run it unloaded, the first stage can get very hot, much hotter than it does when you are filling a tank. So like you said, start it unloaded (vent valve open), run it for a minute, then shut vent valve and start filling your tank.
Also, after you are done and the compressor is off and vented to zero, and the tank valve is shut, leave the tank hooked up, but tank valve shut, compressor vent valve open (vented), and start the compressor like that and run it for a minute or two. This gives it time to vent out any moisture in the system. Once that is done, shut the compressor off, allow cooling to run until it cools down, then you're done.
Good recommendation on the 100% synthetic compressor oil. That's a must. And whatever you do, don't over fill the oil...